Dictatorial nature of videogame websites

I have been on videogame websites for twelve years. These modulators are very dictatorial on progress.  If they don't like your avatar, mods can ban you like Julius Caesar gave thumbs down to gladiators he did not like in the Colosseum.  Once, I was made popular, the videogame sites upgrade the website or ban me.   The Giantbomb website I have been on didn't like my game selection or my amount of friends so they banned just for pleasure.